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Yes, I do agree with you that the sisters 6siab Kawm ntawv dua the brothers. And the hard work they put into it they will be rewarded for in the end. There's no doubt about it. Does education make Hmong women look down on their boyfriend/husband? I don't know b/c I can't speak for all. What I know is we shouldn't judge people if we haven't been in their shoe[quote]s. But that's a different topic. What we are talking about here is women's inputs about "How we can kho Hmoob txoj kev sau $$ in a wedding, right?" I was telling you, since when did women sit ast the table shoulder to shoulder with men es tham txog KEV Tshoob Kos na lod? Answer "None."
Hi brother long time no see. How are you? I know bro that was why I told him to be realistic.
"Why?" B/c of religious freedom that was why they came and for a better life. . LOL. After all these years TM wanted All us Hmoob be be the SAME and submit/convert to Christianity, so GOD can grant him some magical land. Hmms.... Man, TM, you got ur facts twisted. You oughta go back and read your history books again. Fact checks: 1. Around A.D. 1000, Leif Eriksson sailed and landed on the North American continent already. 2. Christopher Columbuss sailed across the Atlantic Ocean different years in 1492, 1493, 1498 and 1502; where he landed in the New World. 3. The pilgrims came on the Mayflower landed in New England in 1620. 4 The Constitution was written in 1787 5 TM, please do tell, "13 LUB STATES XUB MUAJ LOS YOG THE CONSTITUTION XUB MUAJ?"
So...So many years gone by and TM haven't completed his bathroom, Hmoob City, Hmoob State, etc. Etc. LOL now, he's talking about "Hmoob government." Dude fix smaller projects 1st b4 taking on bigger projects. Goodness sakes some ppl mas...lol
Do you care for my professional opinion? What does hmoob tub/ntxhais txawj have to do with it? Most, if not all, Hmoob tub/ntxhais txawj kawm tiav los yeej los pab themselves, their family kom tau nyob lub neej "American Dream" xwb. Muaj tsawg tus thiajli los serve the public. Therefore, some of you shouldn't wait for the so call "tub/ntxhais txawj" los kho/or fix some the problems/issues circulating in the Hmong community.
Whatever....In general, you still need to cais lus kom meej2, so you won't be yuamkev hais lus. Just saying lol...
It doesn't matter. If we are honest with ourselves, we can openly admit and say honestly tias yeej muaj tej lub sijhawm peb lub siab yeej ntev tau; los yeej muaj tej lub sijhawm peb lub siab tsis ntev.
TM, Nco ntsoov tias.... 3 hais lus mas 3 yuav tsum cais lus kom meej2 mas. Koj txhob hais tias "peb cov pojniam..." You have to say, "Peb ib txhia pojniam...." no nawb.
Bottom line. It's not what you say, but "how" you say it.